Sometimes
it is hard to honor and respect parents when
they have victimized you or didn’t show
you love and acceptance and made you feel
unworthy and unclean. Why do you think they
did that? It is because their parents projected
that into them and then they dumped the demonic
on you where you believed it for yourself.
That is a lie and that is the unloving spirit.
The demonic comes down the family tree (generational
curses) and keeps repeating itself until someone
breaks the family tree curse. You have to
see it is not them but the sin working in
them according to Romans 7:17.
How
then is a person suppose to Honor and Respect
their parents?
How can I honor my parents if they are demonized
with self hatred and self rejection and
victimized me when I was a child and still
do it when I’m around them? You can
honor them by thanking the Lord that they
gave you life if you have nothing else to
honor them with. You have to see your parents
as victims of demonic spirits that have
passed down through your family tree - 3
to 4 generations. Their parents were not
able to love them, so they did not know
how to love you and you cannot expect them
to love you when there is a demonic spirits
called the unloving spirit working in them.
That means you have to separate the sin
in them as I said earlier (Rom. 7:17). They
were victims and have been programmed by
their parents to victimize you! When you
can see they are victims also, then it makes
it easier to forgive them and stop the torment.
When a person has been abused
or victimized, they suffer from a wounded
spirit.
What Paul Says to
do!
That’s why Paul talks about casting
down negative thoughts that are not of God
in 2 Corinthians 10:3-6.
3 For though
we walk in the flesh, we do not war after
the flesh: 4 (For the weapons of our warfare
are not carnal, but mighty through God to
the pulling down of strongholds;) 5C asting
down imaginations, and every high thing
that exalteth itself against the knowledge
of God, and bringing into captivity every
thought to the obedience of Christ; 6 And
having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience,
when your obedience is fulfilled.
When you don’t cast
it down as a lie, then you establish as
a way of life for yourself - a mental stronghold
that becomes a spiritual stronghold of thinking.
You are going to filter the lie through
everything that comes your way. If you were
rejected by your parents then you will feel
rejected by everyone else. Everything they
say will feel like rejection even when they
are not rejecting you. Also, because of
that unloving spirit (self-hatred, self-rejection),
then a child, now an adult will continue
to go back to their parents over and over
again thinking something will change by
trying to get acceptance through them. That
won’t happen because of the demonic
influence in them. What a person has to
accept is that it won’t change until
they remove the lie from their hearts and
minds because they believe it too! You can
change it though - you can change the lie
you believe by believing who you are in
Christ over what they have said or done!
What can I do?
You have to fall out of agreement with it
and be prepared to walk away from it. You
don’t have to continue to hear the
negative voices of your mother and father
into your ears. If you do, it is an evil
spirit that is reminding you of self-rejection,
self-hatred, etc. How many are still listening
to the voices of demonized parents that
victimized you spiritually when they are
not even around you – they might already
be dead but you still hear it clearly what
they said or did. It is familiar spirits
putting those thoughts in your head. There
is no way any man or pastor or preacher
can take away those voices from your mind
or memory. There is a way to be freed from
the spirit that transferred into you and
tormenting you through your family tree.
That is the unloving spirit that comes to
you to accuse you and make you feel rejection,
self hatred, etc. If you are going to get
the work out the grace of God in you, you
must realize you will always remember those
voices, they are a big part of the memory,
but the pain from presence of that evil
spirit that is attacking you and accusing
can be gone. You are going to have the memory
but not have the accusation or pain of the
memory.
When you hear that voice,
you will know to cast it down as Paul says
to do in 2 Corinthians 10:3-6 and not let
it affect you because you will know what
your heavenly father thinks of you. Meaning
you need to discern good and evil by what
is being said between your ears. If it is
not of love, then it is the devil accusing
you. Casting down negative thoughts by not
accepting it. Know who you are in Christ
and meditate on what the word says about
you. You can only feel complete with God.
No man can cause you to feel complete. When
the enemy comes to accuse you and you know
what your identity is, then it will not
affect you whatsoever. That is why you need
to know what the Lord says about you when
the enemy comes to accuse you. You see when
you believe the lie, then you are calling
God a liar as well. You are none of those
things that you are accused of by the enemy
or by your parents. You are just a victim
of your parents demonic. That is why it
hurt so bad because of their demonic and
the demonic that past down to you through
them through the family tree (generational
curses). That is why the devil knew what
he was doing to accuse you because he knows
your family tree.
There is no reason to go
around in rejection or self rejection because
your parents rejected you. Your heavenly
father is now your father once you became
born again and you are not ever rejected
by him ever even when you sin. Run to Him
for your love. You have to come to the place
where you don’t go to your parents
for acceptance. That has to stop! Realize
that you need to go to the Father because
He has already accepted you and loves you
even when you are not perfect. We cannot
lose the love of the father.
I know every time I have
a bad memory or a specific memory from my
past or from my parents and have a ping
or bad feeling, I know I need to forgive
that situation and then try to turn my thoughts
to the Lord or try to think of something
more positive about that person or parent.
What that does is reprogram your thinking
or what the word says renewing my mind.
That is taking every thought captive. Then
I fill my mind with what the Lord says about
me if I heard negative words of the past.
I remind the enemy what the Lord says about
me. Again, the war is between our ears and
it’s a powerful war. In Ephesians
6:12
“12 For
we wrestle not against flesh and blood,
but against principalities, against powers,
against the rulers of the darkness of this
world, against spiritual wickedness in high
places."
The beginning of Chapter
6 of Ephesians talks about honoring our
parents and then goes into spiritual warfare.
So, if we can honor our parents, if they
were abusive to you, by honoring them that
they gave you life. That does not mean you
have to continue to go and be abused to
give godly honor.
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